... we had just moved into our new house that year... and we had a neighborhood Halloween party 2004... Dave was a trooper in dressing up! (he was like do i have wear this??) .. we will miss you this year daddy and each year we trick or treat with out you ... LOVE YOU!! XOXOXOXOXO
~This website is dedicated to my children. In loving memory of their Father~...and for all those touched by the Yurgaitis family...
Friday, October 31, 2008
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
some wisdom.... 10.28.08
Ive been getting these daily devotionals through emails for quite some time now from a dear friend who first introduced it to me last year... I read and looked for any type of peace to keep myself sane through these months of agony... and as some of you know.. I didnt quite understand or did the whole "GODLY" thing... not that I didnt want too.. but for reasons that I really havent been exposed to it growing up.. but I have done my own self searching and found bits and pieces of God that makes sense in my life and any type of wisdom that he provides.... I take it all in and use it to my advantage ....and I am thankful that I found it! so I would like to pass it along.... so here you go.... something interesting today that was put in my in box to share with all of you ....... Michele :o)
Living the ‘Good Life’
by Rick Warren
10.28.2008
For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so that we can do the good things he planned for us long ago. Ephesians 2:10 (NLT)
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A few years ago the planned community of Mission Viejo , California launched an advertising campaign to attract home buyers. They used phrases like “ Mission Viejo : the California Promise” and “The place to live the Good Life.” Although “the Good Life” is a well-worn phrase in our culture, I wonder how many people have ever stopped to define what exactly it is.
For some people the Good Life is confused with looking good. They are preoccupied with appearance, as if that is all that really matters in life. In America our culture idolizes beauty and puts a premium on being attractive. Advertisers capitalize on this knowing that the promise of “looking good” causes us to spend billions on beauty products, tanning salons, plastic surgery, liposuction, custom color coordination, and the latest styles in clothing.
For others the Good Life is confused with feeling good. Their goal is the minimization of pain and the maximization of pleasure, and they will use whatever it takes to achieve it: hot tubs, Disneyland , cocaine, virtual reality, world travel, the latest movie. The pleasure and entertainment industry is now the largest industry in America . The old 60’s phrase, “If it feels good, do it” has become the modus operandi for much of our society.
For others the Good Life is confused with having the goods. Their chief ambition is to collect all the goods and goodies of life. They make as much as they can and spend it as fast as they can.
Some honestly identify their values with bumper stickers that say “The one with the most toys wins.” Others are not that brazen but they still believe that the Good Life is something that can be bought.
The truth is: none of these things ultimately satisfy.
· No matter what you do, you can’t stop the aging process.
· Pleasure is a by-product of the Good Life, not the goal of it.
· The greatest things in life are not things!
So what is the Good Life?
It is the personal fulfillment and joy that comes from being good and doing good.
It is the result of discovering and becoming exactly what God created you to be. Nothing else will fill that void in your soul.
The Bible says this: “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so that we can do the good things he planned for us long ago” (Ephesians 2:10 NLT).
When you use your life to help others, to do good, and to know and trust God, you will feel good about yourself. That is the Good Life. Don’t let anybody con you into thinking it is something else!
© 2008 Purpose Driven Life. All rights reserved. Rick Warren is the founding pastor of Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, Calif., one of America's largest and best-known churches. In addition, Rick is author of the New York Times bestseller The Purpose Driven Life and The Purpose Driven Church, which was named one of the 100 Christian books that changed the 20th Century. He is also founder of Pastors.com, a global Internet community for ministers.
Living the ‘Good Life’
by Rick Warren
10.28.2008
For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so that we can do the good things he planned for us long ago. Ephesians 2:10 (NLT)
*** *** *** ***
A few years ago the planned community of Mission Viejo , California launched an advertising campaign to attract home buyers. They used phrases like “ Mission Viejo : the California Promise” and “The place to live the Good Life.” Although “the Good Life” is a well-worn phrase in our culture, I wonder how many people have ever stopped to define what exactly it is.
For some people the Good Life is confused with looking good. They are preoccupied with appearance, as if that is all that really matters in life. In America our culture idolizes beauty and puts a premium on being attractive. Advertisers capitalize on this knowing that the promise of “looking good” causes us to spend billions on beauty products, tanning salons, plastic surgery, liposuction, custom color coordination, and the latest styles in clothing.
For others the Good Life is confused with feeling good. Their goal is the minimization of pain and the maximization of pleasure, and they will use whatever it takes to achieve it: hot tubs, Disneyland , cocaine, virtual reality, world travel, the latest movie. The pleasure and entertainment industry is now the largest industry in America . The old 60’s phrase, “If it feels good, do it” has become the modus operandi for much of our society.
For others the Good Life is confused with having the goods. Their chief ambition is to collect all the goods and goodies of life. They make as much as they can and spend it as fast as they can.
Some honestly identify their values with bumper stickers that say “The one with the most toys wins.” Others are not that brazen but they still believe that the Good Life is something that can be bought.
The truth is: none of these things ultimately satisfy.
· No matter what you do, you can’t stop the aging process.
· Pleasure is a by-product of the Good Life, not the goal of it.
· The greatest things in life are not things!
So what is the Good Life?
It is the personal fulfillment and joy that comes from being good and doing good.
It is the result of discovering and becoming exactly what God created you to be. Nothing else will fill that void in your soul.
The Bible says this: “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so that we can do the good things he planned for us long ago” (Ephesians 2:10 NLT).
When you use your life to help others, to do good, and to know and trust God, you will feel good about yourself. That is the Good Life. Don’t let anybody con you into thinking it is something else!
© 2008 Purpose Driven Life. All rights reserved. Rick Warren is the founding pastor of Saddleback Church in Lake Forest, Calif., one of America's largest and best-known churches. In addition, Rick is author of the New York Times bestseller The Purpose Driven Life and The Purpose Driven Church, which was named one of the 100 Christian books that changed the 20th Century. He is also founder of Pastors.com, a global Internet community for ministers.
Friday, October 24, 2008
look what landed on our street this morning!!
... the dog was barking like a lunitic this morning... not knowing what she was freeking out about???... so I open the door to let her out.. and look what I see IN FRONT OF ME! ....AMAZING!!!!!!.....
Thursday, October 23, 2008
a HALF of year has gone by...
I cant believe its been a half a year so far since Dave has been gone! I know I say this all the time but it doesn’t seem possible… Some days I think he still is coming home… He had so much life left to live and so many plans left undone and fatherly duties to finish… I think about all that he is missing and all that I’m seeing without him in our lives . Carson’s last soccer game is this weekend and what a great 8 weeks it has been. Last year it was just getting to know the game... But this year Carson really kicked it up a notch and is quite the little player scoring goals and running up and down the field with so much energy. He will be in swimming for the winter and that was something Dave always wanted him to get involved in .. Another natural talent this kid has and it breaks my heart to be the only parent being able to see it happen…Also Chase and Madison’s tap duet is fabulous this year.. and it saddens me that Dave isn’t around to see his children grow into wonderful dancers. Madison will be in a pageant come November and her tap solo is phenomenal, we are hoping she can pull it off this year, Daddy was there last year when she won the talent portion of the pageant and he will be with us in spirit this year…
As I move forward these days I find myself some what relieved to see the progress that I have made over these past 6 challenging months.. I have been able to acknowledge and except a variety of pain on all levels.. From completely drowning in my tears to tear drops that drip off my face.. Then there are some good tears that are from memories when daddy made us laugh ... And we cry because its so funny. Though some days a single tear drop can be so painful , an agonizing sick feeling comes over me as I am reminded that my children are without their dad and I no longer have a husband..…. I am able to live it… breathe it… feel it…except it as our new reality but its when I fear it… then those are the days it feels like a loosing battle ….until I remind myself… in the midst of all the pain and anxiety .. That a death of a loved one shouldn’t be a life sentence for those who have been left behind …but to be here in the present for those who are still living. Knowing I need to move forward with my children and out from the past.. I am learning from this new life that has been chosen for me…dwelling on my past life as I often do and I sometimes think it feels like a permanent condition for me, I find myself talking to Dave for guidance, and he is telling me to “QUIT YOUR CRY’N" which was his all time favorite line…and would hear it quite often.. Easier said then done.. But tears are good and the only way to get to the other side is to go through it…and I have found to my surprise that there have been more frequent stretches of better days then bad ones as I push forward…..
I know Dave would be proud to know that myself and his children have been able to pick up quite a few broken pieces that were handed to us and have been able to put together a new life for the four of us. I hope that somewhere up there in the heavens he can see down on us and continue to keep helping us find our way through this life challenging puzzle…not a game I would have chosen to play.. But one that just is and some day I will get that last piece in for my family… this has been a huge life adjustment for us and I’m trying to keep our strength, making the best of everyday…knowing each piece is critical for survival and someday I will complete it….and in the end.. I am confident this picture will reveal itself …
As I move forward these days I find myself some what relieved to see the progress that I have made over these past 6 challenging months.. I have been able to acknowledge and except a variety of pain on all levels.. From completely drowning in my tears to tear drops that drip off my face.. Then there are some good tears that are from memories when daddy made us laugh ... And we cry because its so funny. Though some days a single tear drop can be so painful , an agonizing sick feeling comes over me as I am reminded that my children are without their dad and I no longer have a husband..…. I am able to live it… breathe it… feel it…except it as our new reality but its when I fear it… then those are the days it feels like a loosing battle ….until I remind myself… in the midst of all the pain and anxiety .. That a death of a loved one shouldn’t be a life sentence for those who have been left behind …but to be here in the present for those who are still living. Knowing I need to move forward with my children and out from the past.. I am learning from this new life that has been chosen for me…dwelling on my past life as I often do and I sometimes think it feels like a permanent condition for me, I find myself talking to Dave for guidance, and he is telling me to “QUIT YOUR CRY’N" which was his all time favorite line…and would hear it quite often.. Easier said then done.. But tears are good and the only way to get to the other side is to go through it…and I have found to my surprise that there have been more frequent stretches of better days then bad ones as I push forward…..
I know Dave would be proud to know that myself and his children have been able to pick up quite a few broken pieces that were handed to us and have been able to put together a new life for the four of us. I hope that somewhere up there in the heavens he can see down on us and continue to keep helping us find our way through this life challenging puzzle…not a game I would have chosen to play.. But one that just is and some day I will get that last piece in for my family… this has been a huge life adjustment for us and I’m trying to keep our strength, making the best of everyday…knowing each piece is critical for survival and someday I will complete it….and in the end.. I am confident this picture will reveal itself …
Tuesday, October 21, 2008
Monday, October 20, 2008
RED SOX FAN?...
Saturday, October 18, 2008
Thursday, October 16, 2008
FALL PHOTO SHOOT 10.16.08
...we took advantage of the beautiful foliage as our backdrop for our fall photo shoot this year... come take a look!...
Monday, October 6, 2008
piece of cake.. full MARATHON next year! ha...
we did it!
(story coming soon)
Michele Kevin Tina Darlene Donna Mike
ok.. so its almost here!!!... not sure if we all lost our minds months ago when we thought we were IRON MEN/WOMEN after a few 5k races and thought we would be capable to do a HALF MARATHON??? ... well, we have all been training....( some more then others )... but all of us have hit the pavement one way shape or form... and its getting closer.. YIKES!!!!.... even "Crapple" does longer runs with me... and sometimes stops dead along the way and rests on some lawns between miles and she laps up some nasty puddles she comes across... but she is a trooper for sure... Dave ran this race in 2005 so this one is very meaningful to me, i found his medal and i will be tying it to my sneaker that day!!!... wish us all luck on Saturday and be hopeful for some great weather!!... and if anyone would like to join in last minute.. more the merrier or just come cheer us to the finish line!!! we would love to have you!!
Wednesday, October 1, 2008
a Picaso by Carson.....
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